Im inarticulate at times because of trying to find an answer that would seem correct and please everyone.
"I just need 1 or 2 extremely close friendships to satisfy me. Such has been the theme of my life. Never more than 2 - maximum 3. The most people I've been able to juggle emotionally is about 5 - and then I start getting neglectful and start losing my grips on myself as a person."
"As soon as the relationship ended I just felt so relieved and happy to be single. In fact, I enjoyed it so much that I was afraid to enter into a new relationship, because I knew that once I decide to be in a relationship, my focus would be entirely on the person and I could get into the same situation I had before; I could lose sight of who I really am."
On a personal note, i've realised when there's a friendship between 2 two's (particular me and yh's friendship or with der), we'll see if the other needs anything. If there is no immediate need that needs attention, either one will cave in to be the one "taken care of". Depending on whose need to "take care" is larger. If both are moderate helpers, then it won't be so obvious and there won't be a dominant-submissive rship.
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