"Aside from that, it has also something to do with the "smothering quota". Given unless you're a close friend, we try our best to create variety in our social network. Hanging out with one person too long damages that. People who are too clingy or uninteresting, forcing subjects we have no interest in often makes us hang out with them less cause I mean come on, there's so compatibility there in the first place.
I have an INTP friend who often likes to force subjects about his interests which is anime and cosplaying but I'm more of a FPS gamer type so in the end, rather than faking interest or wasting time, I slowly allowed the relationship to fizzle. We're still on good terms but we just don't see each other as often cause we don't have much in common at all. No point forcing it right?"
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